Thursday, 25 July 2013

Tamera Mowry Talks Sex

Actress Tamera Mowry recently revealed that she kept her virginity until after she turned 29.
Tamera Mowry
Tamera Mowry grew up in the Hollywood spotlight, but she didn't fall victim to the typical Hollywood car wash of drugs, alcohol and sex. The 35-year-old recently admitted on NYC's Hot 97 that it was actually quite the opposite: She kept her virginity well into her 20s!
"I don't know how to explain this. I'm religious, so I waited until I was 29 to lose my virginity," the actress revealed. "You may not understand this, [but] I did it, then I felt guilty, then I became celibate until I got married."
Mowry's pal Adrienne Bailon — who's also her co-host on the new daytime talk show The Real — was quick to come to her defense.
"Just because you only had sex with one person doesn't mean you're a not freak, and I think that that's a good thing," she added in the interview. "I think people think that you could only be a freak by doing it with a bunch of people. You can be a freak and just be a freak with one person. That is beautiful and dope."
Fans are also backing her on Twitter.
"I think Hollywood could use a few more role models like you," Allison Holly tweeted.
"Thank you for representing the traditional girls! Traditional girls are just as #real as the rest!" Bianca Patterson added.
Mowry is far from alone in her decision to keep her virginity into adulthood. A recent University of Texas study of 1,659 same-sex sibling pairs between the ages of 16 and 29 found that people who waited until an older age to have sex had more fulfilling sex lives than those who lost it at a younger age.
Is there any right age to lose your virginity? No. It's a deeply personal decision, and no one should feel pressured to do it — or not do it — because of others.
Mowry clearly didn't let anyone make that decision for her — and it sounds like she's having fun in her marriage to Fox News correspondent Adam Housley. She recalled an episode of The Real when a sex therapist stopped by to talk all things bedroom.
"Guess who knew everything?" she boasted of her sex knowledge.
Get it, Tamera!

Top 5 reasons relationships end

Why It's Over

Relationships end all the time for a variety of reasons. It's not enjoyable, but it is a part of life, so we thought we'd look a little closer at some of the main reasons why couples call it quits. What we've come up with are five factors that seem to be responsible for the demise of most relationships. 

1 Incompatibility

Is cheating a dealbreaker for you?
Some couples, no matter how hard they try to get on the same page, just aren't compatible. Things usually start off OK because their differing opinions about everything make things interesting and actually create a lot of passion. But eventually, once they want to settle down and start making some real life, adult decisions, their opposite points of view start to cause conflict. Opposites attract to a certain extent, but when it comes to creating a life together, raising children and staying connected, incompatibility can cause more frustration than it's worth and will often be the main factor driving a couple apart.


There really isn't too much to say about this one. Some couples make it through a case of infidelity – while others simply can't. Cheating is often a deal breaker for many people since making a commitment means staying faithful, and if your partner can't do that, how can you trust them? The other issue is that cheating often happens when there's something already going wrong within the relationship, so by the time one person finds their way into someone else's bed, the relationship may already have been on a downhill trajectory.

3Growing apart

The bond that keeps every relationship going and moving in the right direction (forward) can end up frayed and tattered as time passes. What began as a strong connection that drew the two of you together doesn't always hold up under pressure. What felt like the ultimate connection between two people at the beginning can end up completely changing. When this happens, you're left staring at someone you've known and loved but who now feels like a stranger. There aren't many couples who can survive growing apart, and usually it just means the relationship has run its course and it's time to move on.

4Faded chemistry

It can be frighteningly easy to mistake lust for love. You want to be with someone (and in their bed) 24/7 so it must be love, right? Not so fast. Many relationships end simply because the initial chemistry wears off and there was no substance backing up the sex, so when one (or both) of you are bored with the physical aspect of what you had, there's nothing else keeping you connected.

5Different paths

This is probably the most frustrating cause of breaking up because even though you might want different things in life, that doesn't mean you don't still love each other. If you want kids but your guy doesn't or he wants to settle down in the suburbs and you want to travel the world – these are tough situations to deal with and when a compromise can't be reached, there's often no other choice but to part ways despite any lingering feelings you might have for each other.

How to Find out if Your Boyfriend Is Cheating on You (for Girls)

Whether you're starting a new relationship, or in the middle of a serious relationship, there's always a chance that your boyfriend could be cheating on you. If you have reasons to suspect he's cheating, or if you're just wondering if you're over thinking it, follow these easy tips to find out whether or not your man is being faithful.

Notice What he Says

Notice his excuses. Before, he always seemed ready to hang out, and now, his reasons for not being able to see you are piling up. At first, you believed him when he said he had a stomach ache or was too tired to go out, but you're starting to wonder if he's really trying to tell you that he doesn't want to spend time with you because he's busy hanging out with some other girl. Here are some signs that he may be cheating:

  • If he used to save all of his free time for you, but now he's always going out for "boy's night." This is especially suspicious if he doesn't have that many male friends, or never showed much of an interest in hanging out with his bros before.
  • If he's suddenly working overtime all the time. Though he's worked overtime occasionally in the past, suddenly things are really busy at work, and he seems to always be there instead of hanging out with you. Of course, many professions have a busy season, and he could be working on a more time-consuming project, but it's more likely that he's using overtime to mean "time with my other girlfriend."
  • If he's always too tired to stay out late or hang out and was never tired before, this may be a sign that he's using his energy on someone else.
  • If you made a routine of having lunch or dinner together often and now he's never in the mood, or just doesn't feel well or isn't hungry.
  • None of these signs alone means that your boyfriend is cheating on you. But if all of these things come up repeatedly, then it either means that he's spending a lot of quality time with someone else, or that he doesn't want to spend time with you anymore. If he's always making excuses for why he doesn't want to hang out with you, then you should ask yourself why you're still in the relationship.
 Notice the things he says. Even when he's not making excuses, your boyfriend could start saying things that make him sound like another person all together. If there's suddenly a change in how he talks to you and how he talks in general, then he may be thinking of another lady. Here are some signs that the things he says may show that he's cheating:
  • If he stops complementing you. Did he compliment you all the time before, and now he suddenly stopped any flattery? If he never tells you you're beautiful, or mentions your best features and how awesome you generally are, then maybe he's saving all of his flattery for someone else.
  • If he compliments you more often. If he wasn't a big complementer, but suddenly he's always telling you how amazing you are, he may be doing it out of guilt. If he does this after a long and unexplained absence, then this is particularly suspicious.
  • If he just sounds different. If he's saying things he's never said before, using words he's never used before, or even laughing in a new way, then maybe he picked up these words from a special lady.
  • If he doesn't return your texts for hours in the middle of a conversation. If you were having a long texting exchange and he's suddenly MIA, it may mean that his new lady just showed up.

Notice What he Does

  1. 1
    See if there's a change in your sex life. If he has another girlfriend, he may stop spending as much time in the bedroom with you, but it could also make him want to have more sex. Here are some things to look:
    • If you're having a really long dry spell. If he never wants to have sex anymore, he may be getting it somewhere else.
    • If he suddenly has a voracious sexual appetite. If he wants to have sex all the time all of a sudden, it may be because his sex drive has gone up from sleeping with another lady.
    • If he tries a ton of new moves in bed. He could be picking these up from another girl.
  2. 2
    See if he's much nicer or more helpful. Your boyfriend may have some serious guilt because he's cheating on you, and this will actually make him much nicer to you. If you find that suddenly he's helping out around the house a lot more or doing a ton of favors for you, he may be doing it to compensate.
    • If he cleans your apartment, fixes your car, or buys your groceries and has never done those things before, there may be a reason for it.
    • If he's always asking if there's any way he can help.
    • If he's suddenly Mr. Romance and brings you candy and flowers, especially after a long period where he was distant.
  3. 3
    See if he's meticulously clean all of a sudden. If your boyfriend never cared about the state of his car or apartment but now he's taking hours to clean it, he may be doing it to clean up for another lady or to hide evidence of her.
    • If his car used to be messy and is now spotless, he may be keeping it fresh for another lady.
    • If his apartment is much cleaner than it used to be, and if he always says he needs some time to clean up, he may be cleaning it to get rid of evidence of his other girl. If you really want to find out if he's cheating on you, come over when he says he is "cleaning his apartment" and see what he's really up to.
    • If he uses air freshener in his car or home. He may be using it to hide the smell of his lead lady.
  4. 4
    See if his mood changes. Whether he seems to always be in a good mood, or is just moody all the time instead of his usual even-keeled self, then something is up. Pay attention to his mood to see if something is up:
    • If he's sometimes in a ridiculously good mood, like he's walking on sunshine, for no apparent reason. If he's grinning ear to ear and looking off into the distance like he's remembering a fond memory with another girl, then chances are his good mood has nothing to do with you.
    • If he's suddenly in a terrible mood. If everything seems fine and he's suddenly furious or very upset, especially after a phone call or text message, then another girl may have had something to do with it.
  5. 5 See if he engages in generally shady behavior. Shady behavior is pretty easy to spot, and if he's doing at least a few shady things, then it can only add up to him sneaking around to spend time with another girl. Here are some signs:
    • If he's spending a lot of time texting and on the phone. If he stops texting or ends his phone call as soon as you leave the room.
    • If he's suddenly spending a lot of time online. This could be a sign that he's chatting it up with another girl. If he slams his computer shut when you walk into a room, that is a bad sign.
    • If he disappears for hours, and is just incommunicado for a day, a night, or even a weekend. If he can't take the time to answer your call or just send you a quick message, then he may be with another girl.
    • If he shuts his phone off for hours on end. Why else would he do that?

Monday, 22 July 2013

FInd Out if your Girl is Cheating on You

Sometimes, a good relationship can be ruined by mistrusting your girlfriend. But if you suspect she's cheating, the nagging suspicion can be almost impossible to ignore. Here's how to start figuring out if your fears are real.

1. Take A Step Back. Before you do anything rash, take a moment to exhale and consider the situation. Ask yourself:
  • What makes you think she's cheating? Do you have hard evidence, or just a hunch?
  • How trustworthy do you think your girlfriend is? Do you think she'd be capable of something like this?
  • Has your girlfriend lied to you? Can you think of any instances when you haven't been sure if she's telling the truth?
  • Is she absent or unreachable for long periods of time? Does she bail out on your plans often?

2. Observe. Watch how your girlfriend acts around you and other people. Do you notice any significant changes in her behavior, such as:
  • Does she send you text messages or calls less often? If you start being the one to call or text her first all the time, that's a bad sign.
  • Secret phone conversations. Does she leave the room every time she gets a call on her cell? Is she just trying to be polite? If she's trying to guard her conversations on the phone, there may be reason to worry.
  • Distinct changes in appearance. If your girlfriend suddenly starts worrying a little more about her appearance, (new clothes, always clean shaven, spending more time in the mirror) she may be trying to look good for someone else. If she gets dressed up for you, that's one thing but if they seem to spend a little more time looking good to go out without you, you might want to look into that.
  • Picking fights: Is your girlfriend picking fights and arguing more with you? This could just be an excuse to get out of the house. Picking a fight and then storming out of the house to get away from you is an easy way to go spend time with someone else.
  • Lying: Catching her in a lie, no matter how small, is always cause for concern. Try to connect lies with certain time frames and you may have a connection to infidelity.
  • Computer time: An increase in computer time may a sign you are being cheated on. There are many adult chat rooms out there that cater to infidelity.
  • Friends behavioral change: If your friends seem to feel uncomfortable around you, they may know something that you don't. This is a classic sign that your girlfriend is cheating on you and you are the last to know.
  • Accusing you: Another common sign you are being cheated on is that she constantly accuses you of the very same thing she is guilty of — cheating. She may drop hints that you are having an affair because her own guilt is starting to wear on her.
  • Emotionally detached. When she no longer cares about things related to the relationship. She has a cold, distant vibe that feels as if a large wall is up and you can't do anything to break it down.
3. Express affection and watch how she responds. These are signs that she might be thinking of cheating:
Tell her you love her. Does she say it back?
Hold her hand. Does she try to pull it away? Does she look nervous?
4. Look at her past. Like the old saying goes, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Has she snuck around other boyfriends in the past? If so, then, she might already be comfortable with cheating.
5. Be up-front with her. Tell her you have something on your mind, and ask if she has time to talk in a private space. Don't accuse her (such as, "I know you're cheating!"), but do express your feelings (like "I feel like you're losing interest in our relationship").
  • Notice whether or not she gives you an answer. If she isn't cheating, she has no reason not to be straightforward and reassure you that everything is fine. If she is, she might talk in circles without really saying anything.
  • If she becomes defensive or tries to turn the tables on you, this might be her guilt talking. 
6. Follow your gut. Sometimes, you just know things without having to second-guess yourself. No amount of crying and denial can rival the feelings you have in the pit of your stomach. After you've taken all the evidence into consideration, it's time to follow your intuition.
  • Don't just randomly ask her, "Hey, you wouldn't happen to be cheating on me, would you?" She's going to say no anyway and she'll think you don't trust her.
  • Nothing you can do will dictate her actions. Sometimes, there is simply nothing you can do but walk away. Never, ever, dismiss this as an option or you will not get anywhere.
  • She doesn't want you to know her associations, see her emails or her phone.
  • If she can't look you in your face while you two are talking, that might mean she is cheating on you.
  • If your girlfriend is coming home at extremely late hours after long periods of absence, this may be a sign that she is having an affair.
  • If she is making excuses not to spend time with you but is going the extra mile to hang out with her so-called friends, it's likely that she doesn't want to be with you anymore.
  • If your girlfriend begins to start acting differently with the way she speaks to you and the way she acts when you are not around that could be a sign.
  • You can obviously tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you if she doesn't have the time to be with you anymore. It almost seems as if she has plans without you.
  • She will make all kinds of excuses to make you feel bad and the ease of getting away from cheating.
  • If your girlfriend acting more sweetly with you that's also a sign.

Nigeria Senate To Legalize Under Age Marriage

I believe the Nigerian Senate has misplaced priorities. They are not focusing on the real issues plaguing our nation like corruption, providing adequate health care, resolving the long standing NEPA issue and much more. Instead they are using tax payers money to to pass ridiculous bills like anti gay marriage laws with harsh 14 year jail sentences (as if the few gay people in Nigeria are clamouring for marriage) & a few days ago they passed a law legalizing under age marriage.

It all began a few days ago on the 17th July when the Senate voted to stipulate that a woman shall not be qualified for marriage until she is 18 years old. Former Governor of Zamfara State now Senator Ahmad Sani Yarima opposed this ruling claiming it violates Islamic law. You may recall that in 2009 this same Senator Yerima who is in his late 50s sparked outrage when he married a 13 year old girl. He justified his actions by citing that according to Islamic law he was doing nothing wrong.

And based on his opposition the Senate led by Senate president David Mark amended the age specification in the new constitution, changing it from 18 & leaving it open even to infants. The new law states “A woman is deemed to be “full of age” once she is married irrespective of the age she did so.”

Thus implying that even an infant shall be considered to be “of age” once married & thereby legalizing pedophilia!

I can’t believe this! So now any man that has an attraction to young girls can marry said girls, especially girls from poor homes! I am so outraged, and so should you.  Let’s Help The United Nations Stop The Nigerian Senate Repeal This Law!

This is what your elected officials are doing over in Abuja, passing laws to legalize under age marriage!

Thursday, 18 July 2013

Inspirational Pictures

Inspirational Post About Life

“Do one thing every day that scares you.” ― Eleanor Roosevelt
“If the facts don’t fit the theory, change the facts.” - Albert Einstein
“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” - Eleanor Roosevelt
“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart" - Helen Keller Read
“Believe you can and you're halfway there” - Theodore Roosevelt
“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible' ” - Audrey Hepburn Read
“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” - George Eliot
“That which doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.” - Friedrich Nietzsche
“I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.” - Jimmy Dean
"Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right." - Henry Ford
"Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination.” - Roy Goodman


Men....It could be really simple
Men make a lot of mistakes when dating.   They have to remember women are like flowers and need to be watered everyday with kindness and appreciation.  Women also don’t want to hear stories of your past relationships. 

 If there’s any negative emotions lingering from an ex, talk to a professional about it, not a prospective.
Try to stay positive. 

 Remember the old saying if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything.  Negativity is a real turn off.  What women most often tell me, is that they want  someone who’s kind and funny.  Keep those first dates light.

Don’t be cheap.
The worst turn off is someone who is cheap….

Your date does not have to be in a very expensive restaurant.

Make a few suggestions let her choose the place.
It should be somewhere with a good vibe so that it puts you in a good mood.
And don’t make it feel like an interview.
Pick good topics and remember do not interrupt a woman when she is talking…
Whether you plan on going out again on a second date

Do treat her with respect and always be a gentlemen…….

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7 Ways to Fall in Love

When people think of falling in love, they most often think of finding a romantic, sexual partner. This is understandable. Hollywood sells love, sex and romance; there are businesses galore that support love, sex and romance, and there are businesses that use love, sex, and romance to sell us everything from cars to perfumes to hamburgers.  We've become a society so obsessed with partnering up with that one sexual partner that we've forgotten that falling in love and romantic partners are not mutually exclusive.
The feeling of falling in love in not dependent on romantic or sexual feelings for another person. You can enjoy being in love in many different ways. So if you're feeling left out of the "in-love" crowd or your feelings of love for your current romantic partner have faded, read on.

Here are 7 ways to fall in love.
You can fall head over heels in love with

1. Your dog, cat, bird, snake, or whatever kind of pet you have (all living beings have "love" to give and your pet is no exception)

2. Your babies and children (it may be harder to fall in love with your teenager but wait a few years and the feeling may come back)

3. Your best friend (and no, this does not mean you want to sleep with him or her and even if you do, don't)

4. Your favorite author, actor, recording artist, or professional athlete (and no, this does not mean you have permission to stalk him or have any delusions that she loves you back)

5. Your favorite grandparent, aunt, or other family member who makes you feel loved and special (and no, this does not entail anything creepy or inappropriate)

6. Your work and career (and yes, some people really do fall in love with the work they do and the difference they make)

7. Your life and life itself (if you can fall in love with life, your life, then you'll  live each day with an open and full heart)
So make a point to fall in love today. It feels good, regardless of who or what is the object of your affection. Take advantage of the heart's ability to give and receive love unconditionally and in so many wonderful ways.
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Ask a Guy: Is Sex on a First Date a Relationship?

A Lady Said To me:
I met a guy online.  After a few e-mails, we texted with each other.  His first text message was sexual and, being a flirty person, I responded back with some flirtatious banter.  By the time we met up there was no conversation, it was virtually straight to sex.
We continued meeting up and for the first 5 times I took it as just sex.  Not just sex, but really aggressive, dirty sex and sexual role-playing.  A turning point came where he started showing another side of himself.  A sweet, caring side.  He even cooked me dinner.
I can tell he lusts for me, but given the way this started out I don’t know that there’s a chance any relationship could come out of this.  I’m not a clingy/needy type of girl and I give him space, but if there were any possibility of this becoming something more I’d like to pursue it.
What are your thoughts on a relationship happening after sex on the first date?  Is sex on the first date a relationship killer?

Yes, a relationship can come from something that started with sex on the first date.
There are some guys who will never date a girl that sleeps with them on the first date out of principle, but the surprising reality is that that’s only a small percentage of men who are that are that rigid. For the majority of guys, what really counts (and what they’ll reflect on) is the way in which the sex happened.  That’s the real issue.
I mean, if the sex happened after hours of amazing conversation and genuine connection, that will most likely have good potential for a relationship.  At least, it would at the very least not hurt you and might even help chances for a relationship.  It would be looked at from the perspective of “passion” and “love at first sight”.
So on the one hand, if you went in there and had sex with virtually no connection established other than some playful, sexy banter and verbal foreplay, that will work against you in terms of being evaluated as a relationship partner.
On the other hand, if you established a profound, deep, meaningful connection first before the sex, then there’s a possibility.
There’s still hope if you didn’t fall into the category of profound connection before the sex…  But guys aren’t going to date you for sex.  Sex and relationship feelings are WORLDS apart for guys in the beginning – they are completely separate during the beginning of a relationship and then merge later on down the line (at the love stage).
If you want a relationship, I would encourage you to find ways to connect on a deeper level.  Let him know you…  get to know him.  Understand him, give him space to open up.  You can’t force it, but if it’s a possibility, creating the space would be a good direction to go.
If you want him to be more open with you, demonstrate openness.  If you want him to connect with you on a deeper level, demonstrate coming from a deeper level.  Not every guy will go for this (he might not be in that place), but if he is, he might just begin walking down that path with you.
Now you mentioned that you have some pretty aggressive role-playing and sexual interplay.  In it of itself that’s not a problem, but if you’re trying to pursue a relationship with this guy and a cornerstone of your current “relationship” is role-playing it might make forming a genuine connection very difficult.  Role playing is about stepping into a role or character… and forming a genuine connection is the total opposite.
Given the set-up you described, making a relationship happen here might be tricky.  There’s certainly no harm in trying though and I would say if a relationship is what you’d like to move towards, give it a shot and the worst that could happen is nothing happens.
Hope it helps,

Reference: eric charles

Things Not to do on a First Date

Your date doesn’t want to hear about the things  you hate the most."  You’ve got everything planned out: what to wear, dinner reservations, suggestions for where to go for a drink afterward, a few witty anecdotes -- this is going to be the best first date in the history of first dates. But then, as you’re waiting for dessert, you go on a 15-minute rant about your ex. Crash and burn.

Sometimes we spend so much time thinking about what to get right on a first date, we forget to plan for what could go wrong. And what could go wrong is you.

Don’t Be Late

If you want to impress on the first date, make sure you’re prepared. Give yourself ample time to finish work, do errands and get ready for your night out. You don’t want to be that person who has to send “just one last email for work,” or show up with your gym bag. If you’re running late, chances are you won’t be looking your best either and you definitely want to be dressed your best. When people are late, they tend to get flustered, and the reality is that your date is going to be judging and evaluating every little thing -- so you don’t want to do something out of character.

Don’t Overdo It

Everything in moderation, right? You might be hungry, but it isn't the best idea to try and get to the bottom of an Olive Garden’s bottomless bowl of pasta (bonus tip: don’t go to the Olive Garden on a first date). You also don’t want to overdo the booze. A drink or two to calm the nerves can often help the night go smoother, but once you’ve polished off your sixth vodka soda, chances are things are going to get sloppy (and not in a good way).

And while you want the conversation to progress naturally, also make sure not to dwell on any topics for too long. Sure, you may the biggest Game of Thrones fan, but maybe your date is just being polite and doesn’t really want to hear about the things you hate the most.

 If the first date looks to be ending early, bring up seeing each other again." Tweet This Quote

Don’t Spend The Night On Your Phone

Just don’t.

Don’t Be Rude

Seems simple enough. But sometimes we don’t notice when we’re being rude. Be careful not to interrupt too much or give attitude to your server.

Don’t Talk About Anything Too Serious

Having the same interests and life views is incredibly important, and some topics will need to be debated eventually, but the first date isn’t the right time. Once you’re more comfortable with each other, it will be easier to have honest conversations. You also don’t want to bring up all the bad things that have happened to you recently. You’re on a date with a person you're interested in -- don’t be a downer.

Don’t Look Too Happy

Just kidding. Smile. Smile a lot.

Don’t Try To Force The Situation

You might have planned to go from dinner to a great cocktail bar (that happens to be right around the corner from your place), but maybe a great dinner was the right first step. If the first date looks to be ending early, though, do bring up seeing each other again.

Be Honest, But Don’t Be Too Revealing

Never lie on a first date -- it’ll just snowball and ruin things further down the line. But that doesn’t mean that you have to tell your life story, chapter and verse. You need something to talk about on that second date, right?

Tuesday, 16 July 2013

20 Inspirational Quotes

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” – Albert Einstein
“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.” – Albert Ellis
“The trouble with not having a goal is that you can spend your life running up and down the field and never score.” – Bill Copeland
“If what you’re doing is not your passion, you have nothing to lose.”
“The person who says something is impossible should not interrupt the person who is doing it.”
“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” – George Eliot
“All our dreams can come true – if we have the courage to pursue them.” – Walt Disney
“What the mind can conceive, it can achieve.” – Napoleon Hill
“It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that things are difficult.” – Seneca
“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
“Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.” -Albert Einstein.
“If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.” -Milton Berle
“The sky has never been the limit. We are our own limits. It’s then about breaking our personal limits and outgrowing ourselves to live our best lives.”
“Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein.” – Life’s Little Instruction Book, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
“First they ignore you. Then they laugh at you. Then they fight you. Then you win.” – Mahatma Gandhi
“When you can’t change the direction of the wind — adjust your sails.” ~ H. Jackson Brown
“Everything you want should be yours: the type of work you want; the relationships you need; the social, mental, and aesthetic stimulation that will make you happy and fulfilled; the money you require for the lifestyle that is appropriate to you; and any requirement that you may (or may not) have for achievement or service to others. If you don’t aim for it all, you’ll never get it all. To aim for it requires that you know what you want” ~ Richard Koch
“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.” – Albert Ellis
“Confidence comes not from always being right but not fearing to be wrong”
“Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinion drowned your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” – Steve Jobs

Prime purpose

FEAR means False Evidence Appearing Real

Don't Under-estimate someone

Don't under-estimate someone because he/she doesn't have money, but they might have something money cannot buy.

life is too short to start feeling overall, things changes with time. You might be the rejected stone today but tomorrow you might turn to be the best among the best.

Live simple, Love simple, Forgive simple. And Fear God

We are just visitors on earth, this life we live is burrowed we are not promised of tomorrow, live today as if it's your last day.

Nothing is permanent so is every situation we are going through, quitters give up easily but winners strive hard under the hard economy or condition.

Life is a battle field we should hold on tight and we'll definitely Prosper



1. Principle of Hard work and smart work (James 2:26) God's Blessing will not come on Nothing, God's Blessing will come on something.
2. Take every Problem as Opportunity. problems are the fertilizers upon which success strives.
3. You MUST Obey God Completely ( Deuteronomy 28:1-13)
4. Help others. (three things can change your destiny 1. people you meet. 2 people you help and 3. Books you read) don't under rate anybody.
5. Develop your self image (Romans 12:3, Colosians 2:18)
6. Be Humble. False Humility, Arrogance, Pride and Pretend will tear you apart.
7. Improve Yourself worth (the world will only celebrate your dream when it's have been materialize, don't wait for the time the system of the world will be ok for you. make it suit your standard) Believe You Can DO it, If You can Believe you can Receive. Finally
8. Have Faith In God.

You are the Highest Mountain to your Problem, Face your problems, admit it and challenge it. Say to yourself i'll Conquer Every Challenges